You’ve Always Wanted to Write a Book. What’s Stopping You?

April 27, 2025
Jerry Strayve

By Jerry Strayve

The Itch Will Never Go Away

For many people, the dream of writing a book lives quietly in the background—a someday project, a goal for “when the time is right.” Maybe you’ve thought about capturing your personal story, your life’s work, or a remarkable experience. Maybe friends and family have encouraged you, saying, “You should really write a book.”

But life is busy. The idea of sitting down with a blank page and somehow producing a manuscript feels overwhelming. Where would you even begin?

This is where ghostwriting comes in—and it’s far more common (and accessible) than most people realize.

What is Ghostwriting, Really?

Ghostwriting is a collaborative process. It’s not about handing over your story to someone else to make it into something unrecognizable. A good ghostwriter listens closely, asks thoughtful questions, and works alongside you to bring your voice, your experiences, and your insights to life on the page.

The final product still sounds like you—only clearer, more structured, and professionally crafted.

“Is it too late to start?”
It’s never too late. Some of the most powerful books are written by people who waited until they had the wisdom of a full life to share.

In short: ghostwriting helps transform your ideas, memories, and expertise into a book that you’re proud to share with the world.

What Does the Process Look Like?

Every project is a little different, but typically, it starts with conversations. We meet (in person, by phone, or over Zoom) to talk about your goals, your audience, and your vision for the book. From there, I draft an outline based on our discussions to make sure the structure reflects your story the way you want it told.

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Once the outline is approved, the real writing begins—chapter by chapter, with regular updates, opportunities for feedback, and revisions built into the process. You’re involved every step of the way, without needing to wrestle with the blank page yourself.

By the time we’re done, you’ll have a polished manuscript that captures your voice and purpose.

Common Concerns (and Real Answers)

“Is my story really worth telling?”
Absolutely. Every story is unique—and yours may resonate with more people than you imagine. Your experiences, your lessons, your journey: they matter.

“What if it doesn’t sound like me?”
A skilled ghostwriter’s job is to capture your voice, not replace it. The goal is for your family, friends, or colleagues to read your book and say, “That sounds exactly like you.”

“Is it too late to start?”
It’s never too late. Some of the most powerful books are written by people who waited until they had the wisdom of a full life to share.

Ready to Take the First Step?

If you’ve been thinking about writing a book but aren’t sure how to get started—or if you’d simply like a guide to help you bring your story into the world—I invite you to learn more about how ghostwriting could work for you.

You can find more information here: Ghostwriting Services.

Taking that first step might be easier than you think. And the story you leave behind may be the most lasting gift of all.

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2 comments

  • This is excellent information. If you’ve ever wanted to tell your story but were afraid to start – maybe you need a ghostwriter. A personal memoir is a great gift to your family.

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